I am doing an in-person workshop in Utrecht, The Netherlands, on Friday 14th and Saturday 15th March 2025. 

This workshop is being organised by Rens Meijkamp through Art of Being Yourself. For more information and to register for this workshop click here. 

The art of being a good IoPT practitioner is to know when you are not.

If just one of your ancestors had chosen to be with someone else, you would not exist.

The odds of being born are 1 in 400 trillion.

• The odds of two people meeting and having a relationship long enough to have children are about 1 in 40 million. 
• The odds of one sperm hitting one egg are about 1 in 400 quadrillion. 
• A fertile woman has about 100,000 viable eggs on average. 
• A man will produce about 12 trillion sperm over his reproductive lifetime. 

What does this mean?

The odds of being born are so low that some people consider it a miracle. 

Others say that these odds highlight the importance of living your life to the fullest. 

What is the purpose of Life?

To live a good life, and to come to know who one really is.

If you suffer rejection from your mother, you have to bury your wanting ability. It is too painful to exercise your want, because what you want is your mother's love, and what you got was rejection. (The Trauma of Love)

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